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Christians, doing the same things. Non-believ-
ers cannot be your best friends. No matter how
moral a person is, as long as he is not born
again, he cannot be your best friend.
It is impossible and unacceptable be-
fore God, because it is an unequal yoking.
Your assessment of an individual can never
measure up with God’s assessment. Once,
God sent Samuel to the house of Jesse to
anoint one of his sons as King of Israel (Samuel
16:1-13). When Samuel saw the first son of
Jesse, Eliab, Samuel said, ‘surely this must the
Lord’s anointed before Him’ because he was
huge, tall and handsome. But God spoke to
the Prophet and said, ‘don’t anoint him, because
I have rejected him’. He said, ‘for man look at the
outward appearance but God looks at the heart,’
the inward man. So your assessment of an in-
dividual is at the most, based on the outward
appearance; what he says, how he looks; you